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Growing up…..
Does growing up means more trouble? If yes ,y 1 need to grow..If no, y am i so troubling?
Does growing up means tat i got to give up something ? If yes ,y i need to make such sacrifice in order to grow…If no,y am i keep losing somthing tat i cherished a lot?
Does growing up means i should be more mature? If yes, wat so good bout growing up..If no,den y ppl keep saying tat :"u r almost 20..how could u…."
Does growing up means simple things will become complicated? If yes, y need to find trouble 4 myself…If no, y cant i remain the same situation in relationships?
Does growing up means i hv to be strong when problems occur? If yes, y i need to b so cruel to myself..If not, y cant i confide with u like the way we used to do?
Does growing up means i have to be better in all the things i do? If yes, how should i do to meet de requirement… If not, then y u all like to set such a high target n expectation on me?
Does growing up means tat i must know how to express myself in a so-called proper manner? If yes, isn’t it a bit tough to put a mask everyday..If no , y cant i show my true self in front of u now?
Growing up is so TOUGH and TIRING….If i were given a choice i would rather be a kid…at least im happier…But growing up means i may not have a choice to choose wat i want..so too bad i cant choose 4 not growing up…
Eventhough i cant stop growing up…i will try to grow up in my own way…a may be rebellious way to u but is a way that i am comfortable with….Maybe i still wont be satisfy and may not be happier but at least …I am true to myself….
October 15th, 2005 at 3:13 am
dear friend…
growing up to me… is how you want it to be… from my experience after 20 yrs on the face of the earth… i’ve come to realise that whatever you do has a significant effect on you (that of course) and also the people that surruond you… also i think growing up is a learning experience… nobody has a set of rules saying that you must grow up like this or like that… so yes growing up does mean you have to learn to make sacrifices that things do seem to be a little bit more complicated and yes you do sometimes have to let go of thinks you love and cherish… all this in my mind make you stronger… but one must realise that whatever it is you sacrifice or let go… you must always think of yourself first before anything… i’m not telling you to be selfish but… consider your situation first b4 other and you’ll always make a decission that will somehow be satisfactory to others… as well as yourself… i like the way u think coz it’s true that you can’t stop growing but the only way to do it is by yourself… you sometimes will need a little help along the way but that’s what family and friens are for…
hope this help you…
don’t be too stressed… things always seem to turn out for the better, so think positive…
PEACE AND CHEERS….
sara….